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Ingxaki yokusebenza ngamandla komntwana wam ofikisayo one-autism: ngaba kufuneka ndisebenzise iRitalin?

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Ndixolele ukuba ayifanelekanga, kodwa ukufunda impendulo yam ngumbuzo:
"Iphi ngoku ingxaki?".
(Ayichazwanga ngokuchanekileyo ngokwaneleyo, ubuncinci kum; kodwa xa imeko yengxaki ingaqondakali ngokwaneleyo okanye iqapheleka, ngokucacileyo kunzima ukuyihlalutya ukuze kufunyanwe izisombululo.)

Lo mntwana akaxakekanga, kwaye ulala kancinci: kulungile, kunikwe, ipharamitha, inyani.
Ngoku, masithi (ukubona nje ukuba kunika ntoni), ingcinga yokuba asifuni (okanye asinako) ukutshintsha le parameter, "ayinakuguqulwa". Kancinci njengentaba.

Ke indlela iya kuba kukuzama ukuziqhelanisa nayo, okanye "ukujikeleza ingxaki".
Qaphela ukuba, kulo mntwana, le meko ayikhangeleki njengengxaki.
(Okanye ubuncinci, ayitsho eposini, ngaphandle kwento yokuba "itshisa amandla amaninzi," engabonakali njengengxaki enkulu. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi ilele Iiyure ezingama-6 ngobusuku, ezizwakala zinesidima (?).)

Kule meko, imeko evelayo yeyokuqala yokuba umama wakhe (okanye abanye abantu) abakwazi kulala. Eyona ngxaki inkulu.

Ke, ngekhe kubenomdla ukuzama indlela enje:
- "ingxaki kukuba umama akakwazi ukulala",
endaweni yohlobo:
- "ingxaki ngumntwana ongalaliyo",
kwaye oko, ubuncinci ukuze ubone okwenzekayo?

Umzekelo, kutheni umama engakwazi ukulala?
Ingxolo? Ixhala? Ukwesaba ukuba uya kuzenzakalisa, ukuba uza kwaphula into?
Okanye mhlawumbi akanyanzelisi ukuba amkhathale ngawo onke amaxesha emini nasebusuku?

Ngokusekwe kolu lwazi, kunokubakho indlela yokujongana nemeko ngokwahlukileyo, ukuvumela umama ukuba alale. (yeyiphi, eyona nto iphambili, eyona ngxaki iphambili, kwaye kusengqiqweni kwaye kusemthethweni ukuba angalala, ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na enye ingqwalaselo okanye ukuqiqa).

Ngaphandle kokuba le meko yokungakhathali ibangela ingxaki yokwenene kulo mntwana (ngempilo yakhe, ngengqondo yakhe, andazi…).

Andinamntwana, kodwa ukuba ebenaye, ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuqala ngokuzama ukumenza azole:
-ukuqala ngomsebenzi womzimba (kodwa kwimeko eboniswe apha, ngokucacileyo oku akonelanga),
-ukutya (ukutya okusempilweni kunye nokutya kwendalo, ngaphandle kwento enokuonwabisa okanye iphazamise),
-nokudala indawo yokuhlala ehambelanayo, ngaphandle kwesiphazamiso kwaye ngaphandle kwemithombo yolonwabo. (Kutheni ungafaki umculo "weZen", iividiyo ezithobayo okanye izibane, kunye nevumba elinempembelelo efanayo?)

Sele konke oku kufanele ukunceda kakhulu. Ezi ziimeko ezisisiseko, ndiyakholelwa.
Ngokoluvo lwam, ukuba abekho, kunzima ukuqiqa okanye ukwenza "iimvavanyo", ukufuna izisombululo.

Kwaye emva koko, ukuba le miba isisiseko ibingonelanga, bendizokwazi ukulala kwigumbi elikhuselekileyo ngokwaneleyo, ngelixa ndiqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wam akakwazi ukuzenzakalisa, ukubaleka, okanye ukuba lixhoba (okanye umenzi wobubi). ) yengxaki ngelixa ulele.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba uyafuna okanye ufuna ukuzibhokoxa ngokwasemzimbeni, kutheni kungenjalo (ngakumbi kule minyaka), ngaphandle kokuba ayizukumenzakalisa, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ndingalala.

Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uzibeke kuqala (njengomzali okanye njengomntu omdala), nokuba oko kuqala kunokunika umbono wokungakhathaleli umntwana wakho. Njengomzekelo woxanduva lokuziqalela ngokwakho ukufaka imaski yeoksijini kwinqwelomoya, ngaphambi kokukhathalela umntwana wakho.

Ndiza kuthenga nomatshini “wokusebenzisa ibhayisekile” okanye “okweqanda” ukuba umntwana ukhuthazekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba angawusebenzisa.
(Kwaye ukuba uyathanda ukubukela iividiyo ngokomzekelo, ndingenza inkqubo eya kubonisa kuphela isikrini sevidiyo ukuba uyanyathela okanye usebenza kumatshini (oko kubonakala kunganzima kakhulu ukukwenza), kuya kumdina, okanye ubuncinci kuya kunyanzela ukuba asebenzise umatshini, ekungekho lula kuwo ukuba umntwana one-autism.)

Kwaye ke akunzima kakhulu ukwenza igumbi okanye indlu “ikhuseleke”: ngumbuzo nje wombutho, we “DIY”, nokongeza amaqhaga kwiikhabhathi nakwiikhabhathi, kwaye ukuba kunyanzelekile kwiifestile nakumnyango wangaphambili.

Ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba achithe iiyure ezisi-8 kwigumbi elivalwe ngokupheleleyo ebusuku kubonakala kungandihlukumezi.

Zonke izinto ezibuthathaka okanye ezixabisekileyo sizibeka kwigumbi elitshixiweyo (umz. Igumbi lokuhlala).
Kwaye sitshixa umnyango wekhitshi ebusuku.
Umnyango wendlu onokutshixwa ngaphakathi unokwenzeka. Njl. njl.
Kukho iindlela eziliwaka kunye neengcebiso ezincinci zokubonakalisa ubomi bakho kancinci.
Ngumbuzo wolungelelwaniso.

Okokugqibela ... ezi ziingcinga nje ezimbalwa, ezisuka kwinto encinci endiyicingayo kule posi (kwaye ndambona lo mntwana kwakanye, kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo)...

Ucinga ntoni?

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Ngokubhekisele kuRitalin, andinalwazi, kuba ndiza kuqala ngendlela eyahluke mpela, njengoko bendizama ukudwelisa apha ngasentla.

Kodwa ukuba abanye abasebenzisi apha banazo naziphi na iingcebiso malunga noRitalin, okanye naziphi na ezinye iingcebiso okanye izimvo malunga nalo mbandela, ngethemba baya kuvuma ukubhala impendulo.

(Unako ukuphawula kulo mbuzo, kwaye ubeke izimvo kwiimpendulo, ukucacisa iinkcukacha.)

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